This is a weird combination, but my husband recently suffered from burn-out and out sex life was non-existing. There isn't a solution to this, it is what it is. Libido disappears. As a person with depressive episodes, I understand this, but it's easy for people to think their partner doesn't like their body anymore, or doesn't think they are sexy anymore.
This is not true! It just takes time when your partner is in this state of mind. Don't feel offended when he/she says no to sex and you're used to having sex whenever you ask.
On the other side, the person experiencing this, shouldn't feel offended when their partner masturbates without them. You both are very conscious about the others' feelings, but talk about them, as you don't want to feel bad for being depressed (as you'll feel depressed about that on top of other things) and you don't want to confuse your partners' depression with feeling unwanted.
That was it for today!!!
Love,
Tiny
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